Renewal Is All Around Us

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Not a day goes by without me thinking, “I’d rather be stacking shelves in a grocery shop!” I am primary school teacher, you see. At times, the job can be extremely stressful, but through it I get to experience the magic of having direct access to God’s power to restore and renew. How does that work? 
The truth is, when you’re fully immersed into the lives of other people, their pain may hurt you, but as they heal and become restored, their joy, their renewal becomes your own. 

As a teacher, I see children, parents and colleagues get ill, grumpy, angry, sad, or go through painful experiences of separation, betrayal and failure. Not long ago, one of the children in my class nearly lost his dad to cancer. The boy was fragile, vulnerable and needy as it was. His mum and dad went through a painful separation. Then his dad got diagnosed with cancer. All at once and within just a couple of months. The horrendous situation had a strong impact on me as well. But I stayed with them as their world fell apart, and as they journeyed toward renewal, I was able to join them and experience it as well. His dad went through a successful operation and is continuing to get better. Both parents seem more cooperative and are exploring the way forward. The boy is happier, and when I see him being cheeky with his dad who is now able to come to school again, it is as if I have also been given a new chance, a new life, a new beginning. 

Not only do I see it in my life, but I also see it in Scripture. “Rejoice with those who rejoice; mourn with those who mourn” (NIV Rom 12:15.) We are meant to experience deep sadness as well as great joy together. We are expected to share other people’s burdens. We are meant to stick with those who are stuck themselves, to be there with them when they are yet miles away from any prospect of renewal. It is about staying there with them, even when and especially when their pain is completely foreign to us. When there seems to be no renewal, we are to sustain each other on God’s behalf, regardless of the particulars of the situation.  

I find it curious that the word “rejoice” has the same prefix in it as renewal. It is as if we are meant to be with people as they are rediscovering joy. They may have lost it for some reason but are now entering a new stage. There is re-storation and re-newal of some sort, and this is why they are re-joicing, and we are meant to rejoice with them.
To be honest, celebrating other people’s successes, breakthroughs and victories can be a challenge. Sometimes we make negative comparisons or we’re too busy looking for our own renewal. We feel like we can’t possibly be wasting our time celebrating awesome changes in other people’s lives when we’re trying to make some of our own. But God didn’t create us to stay in our little bubbles. He made us as a huge part of his huge world, and it is for my benefit as well as others when I learn to mourn and rejoice with those around me. 

As I started to look for renewal around me, I began to see it everywhere. I see it in my other half as he recovers from his father’s death. He’s begun to enjoy life again, and I too smile, feel safe and think, “Everything is going to be alright.” I see it when I write to my pen-friend Tony, who has been on the Death Row, in solitary confinement, for more than 20 years now. Despite that he continues to live and breathe, and hopes to one day be proven innocent. His commitment to this never-ending journey of renewal gives me hope and strengthens my faith.

Renewal is all around us. We must simply train our eyes to notice it. We must train our hearts to invest in others. It’s in doing it together that helps us experience the wonder of new life, the wonder of renewal. 

Elena Verigo

Elena Verigo

Elena teaches children with special needs and organises inter-faith events. She loves polar bears and dark chocolate with sea salt. Elena rides her bike, meditates and goes on retreats to convents and monasteries. She lives and works in England, UK.
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  • Oh, Elena, I never thought that what I do would connect to what an elementary school teacher does but Yes! we see the same gifts of renewal. I work with men with substance abuse. They come to us broken and separated from families and self-respect. When they work towards recovery, we witness a beautiful metamorphosis of the broken being made whole again. Thank you for sharing and thank you for having a caring perspective and pouring into the lives of those in your care.

    • EVerigo

      ‘A beautiful metamorphosis’ – it’s a great way to describe it actually. Not many of us are going to experience sensational transformations in our own lives. But one can always look for (and find) extraordinary healing and restoration in other people’s lives.

  • Jo-Ann Sassone

    Elena, thank you for capturing the challenge and yet the rewards of sharing someone else’s struggles. I too work with children with special needs and had been involved in a church ministry for ten years. Watching and participating in the healing and restoration process is both humbling and a learning experience. I feel very grateful and privileged to bear witness, and help in whatever small way. Your post reminds me to focus on the positive and to see God’s healing hand. Thanks again for sharing and for all you do.

    • EVerigo

      It’s hard isn’t it…. it’s when we’re involved in something so special and wonderful as church ministry that we often become blind to the growth and healing that is all around us. Just like teaching for me – it becomes your everyday job. Nothing glorious about it. But we have to remind ourselves to be attentive to the wonderful changes that take place in front of our eyes. And to recognise the miracles that we are a part of.

  • Thank you for sharing this! I think that we so often do not WANT to rejoice and mourn with others. Being willing to get emotional with people takes time, takes effort, takes a loss of ourselves. We would prefer to remain in our own little protected bubbles. And yet as you’ve written, sometimes getting vulnerable with people and sharing in their pain, no matter how great, can also be a restoration for us as well. Thanks!

    • EVerigo

      Thanks for the comment Joanna! I must admit I often find myself hiding in my ‘little protected bubble’… and it helps when you remind yourself that every such situation (when you can reach out to someone else) is a great learning experience and a unique character building opportunity for oneself.

  • “We are meant to experience deep sadness as well as great joy together. We are expected to share other people’s burdens.” This is so true! It’s easy to want to run away from the sadness and stay around for the good things, but we need to share it all. We need to stick by when someone struggles and not be jealous when something great happens. And I love how you end. “We must train our hearts to invest in others. It’s in doing it together that helps us experience the wonder of new life, the wonder of renewal.” Thank you so much for reminding us of this truth! Blessings!